Couples usually get together because they feel like they have finally found someone who loves them just as much as they love. It is easy to know when you love someone because all you want to do is please them. Yet in marriage this process of pleasing one another can get disrupted. We can become offensive and defensive and get on separate teams if we are not careful. The message can become “This is what you need to do for me!”

Couples should always remember that they are on the same team even when they disagree. We should consistently ask each other “What Can I Do For You?” This will keep the marriage sweet like it was when it started.

Tags: Communication, conflict, love

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