It always gets me mad when I see another couple that doesn’t make it. There is so much help available but people just don’t seem to want to make it. The old saying goes ‘no man is an island’. I don’t know about that. I think they way we are living our lives these days [...]
Remember how helpful you were to each other. You were so thoughtful. You wanted to do everything to please each other. It was so nice. Often it was those kindnesses that won our love. “She makes me feel so special”. “He is so thoughtful”. So what happenned?
I have come to realize that complaining is really not good for you or anybody else. Complaining sets a tone of discontent and dissatisfaction. It’s a downer.
You love your spouse. But you are really starting to wonder if your marriage will make it or not. This is a turning point for lots of couples. Things get so hard that you are wondering if getting out of the marriage would make like easier. So many couples I work with are at the [...]
I believe the first step in disciplining your spouse is to pray for God to open your eyes to yourself and how you contribute to this problem.